Should I seek the advice of others to act wisely?
We often find ourselves unable to resolve the complex questions that arise in life. To act correctly, we must ask for advice.
To grow in maturity, we need to seek guidance from others to fulfill what God expects of us at every moment.
Many factors need to be considered, which can be challenging for one person. However, several individuals can provide greater certainty, as what escapes one’s notice may be observed by another.
Having a guide will help us develop our abilities.
Prudence leads us to seek advice based on others' experiences. “To be prudent, the first step is to acknowledge our limitations. This is the virtue of humility. Through it, we admit that we cannot know everything and that we cannot consider all the circumstances required to make a fair judgment. So, we seek advice."
Then we will not be misled by false reasoning, nor will our passions prevent us from seeing issues clearly. We can achieve peace, knowing we have utilized every means to stay on the right path.
Listening to the opinions of others helps us develop our personality while overcoming our limitations.
Asking for advice is a sign of maturity and sound judgment. The life of the saints is prudent. It is not so independent that it leads to pride; independence often conceals pride under the guise of "holy freedom." Nor does it confuse humility with timidity, as fear paralyzes the spirit, hindering us from expressing what is right and making us indecisive.
We must combine both aspects of prudence: consulting and listening to the opinions of others, while also being decisive and acting freely and responsibly. We can never use the advice we receive as an excuse to avoid responsibility for our actions. Sound judgment entails the capacity to act independently after taking prudent measures.
Therefore, we should frequently turn to those who can and should advise us. This will lead us to the “wisdom of the heart that guides and governs many other virtues. Through prudence, a person learns to be daring without being rash. He will not make excuses (rooted in hidden motives of indolence) to avoid the effort involved in living wholeheartedly according to God's plans."
Yet we should not go to just anyone, but to someone with the right qualities—someone who desires to love God as sincerely as we do and who strives to follow Him faithfully. It is not enough to ask anyone for their opinion; we must seek out someone who can provide sound and impartial advice.
Let us ask our Blessed Lady, Mother of Good Counsel, to grant us such a clear understanding of our own limitations that we will feel the need to turn to others for help. Thus, we will become people of sound, mature judgment. Maturity depends not on age, but on wisdom and prudence.
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