Should I be meek, understanding, and find excuses for everyone?
Our universal mission as Christians to evangelize the world implies that we need a big heart, capable of loving everyone, whoever they are, since God calls every single person.
Meekness is the virtue that will help us to control the temptation of anger.
“Humility leads us, as it were by the hand, to treat our neighbor in the best way possible, that is, being understanding towards everyone, living at peace with everyone, forgiving everyone; never creating divisions or barriers; and behaving - always! - as instruments that foster unity. Not in vain is there in the depths of man's being a strong longing for peace, for union with his fellow man, for a mutual respect for personal rights, so strong that it seeks to transform human relations into fraternity." St Josemaría
In the Gospel, Christ shows us a very clear example of how to treat others. Our Lord's self-abasement knew no limits.
“His holy meekness led him to the most ignominious of deaths: He humbled himself, becoming obedient unto death, even death on a Cross. And he did so out of love for men, for men whom He calls his friends, even if they don't want to be such."
If Christ has loved us so much, we too must try to affirm “the truth serenely, positively, without polemics and without humiliating anyone. We should always leave the other person an honorable way out, so they can recognize without difficulty that they have been mistaken, or have lacked formation or information. At times, the kindest charity is to let the other person be convinced that they have discovered a new truth on their own."
“But Christ not only set us an example of holy meekness. He also set us a very clear example of holy intransigence in the things of God." Though always ready to be understanding towards anyone who approached him with a contrite heart, our Lord refused to yield when his heavenly Father's honor or the good of souls was at stake. Nor can we yield when confronted by ideas contrary to the teaching of the Church: to do so would be false charity.”
Yet our holy intransigence towards error can never become bitter, intemperate zeal. We should always try to spread doctrine in a cheerful, attractive way. “The first step to bringing others to the ways of Christ is for them to see you happy and serene, sure in your advance towards God."
Holy meekness and holy intransigence are both born of love. Out of love for God and souls, we are ready to yield in everything personal that does not prejudice the truth. And out of the very same love, we refuse to give way when our Lord's saving truth is mistreated. Both stem from the same love and lead us to spread doctrine by our friendship and example.
“Don't fear the world: we are of the world and, if we're united to God, if we put our Christian spirit into practice, nothing can harm us. Perhaps at times our Christian conduct may cause surprise among people who are far from God: you must have the courage, then, supported by divine omnipotence, to be faithful."
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