Jan 19 Mon
Do our perceptions shape reality? or
Do our perceptions help us understand reality?
Let us compare the dogmas of the beer industry with the dogma of Mary, the Mother of God, to help us choose.
In the early 1980s, at the height of Miller Lite's popularity, its slogan—"Less filling! Tastes great!"—was everywhere. The company wasn't just selling beer—it was shaping perceptions, defining social cues, and signaling identity as much as flavor.
Just as marketing shapes our perceptions of beer, it can shape how we understand religion. However, while marketing attempts to shape reality to fit perceptions, authentic religious formation shapes our perceptions to understand reality.
Religious education relies on concise formulations to communicate the precepts of belief. Yet there is a fundamental difference. Their purpose is not to market perceptions, but to understand reality.
It might sound shocking to say that Mary is the Mother of God, Theotokos. From a secular-marketing point of view, it's a terrible optic. Many Protestants instantly assume that Catholics are worshiping Mary as a goddess. That's not true, and the Church does not back down from the dogma. Mary is the mother of Jesus: the Person of Christ, not just His human nature. She gave birth “in the fullness of time” to Jesus Christ, fully God and fully man.
Mary is God's creation, not a goddess, yet she cooperates with the Holy Spirit in bringing the whole Person of Jesus into the world. She is the Mother of God because God chose her for that role, a gift, not a title of divinity.
The dogma allows us to expand the horizons of our faith. At every Mass, Holy Mother Church makes real, sacramentally present Jesus Christ in the Blessed Eucharist. We receive the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Jesus in Holy Communion. This is not a blurred perception, but an accurate declaration of reality. When author and lapsed Catholic Mary McCarthy once observed that the Eucharist is a nice symbol, Flannery O'Connor immediately responded: "Well, if it's only a symbol, I say to hell with it."
Christianity ultimately resists the marketing logic that places perception before reality. The central message of the faith—the Passion and the Cross—does not appeal to comfort, prestige, or social approval. As St. Paul wrote, "We preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and foolishness to Gentiles.” Unlike beer slogans or political dogmas, this message defies prejudice and refuses to be packaged for easy consumption.
Beer loyalty teaches how easily we adopt unquestioned prejudices; yet faith requires attention beyond superficial signals. Faith demands recognition of truths that continue to unfold and provoke intelligent inquiry, a willingness to follow a path that is often countercultural, and a pursuit of depth over convenience. The marketing of beer shows how persuasion shapes perception. But only faith directs the mind and heart beyond appearances, guiding us to the reality of God’s work and His plan for salvation.
We've heard it said, "Perception is reality." Baloney! The Incarnation of Jesus requires that we perceive the reality of heaven and earth as they are. Catholic dogmas are windows to infinite realities. Perception, purified by faith and reason, helps us understand reality.
Excerpts from Fr. Jerry Pokorsky











